Family conflicts happen in the best of families. Sometimes years pass and the issues are still not resolved. There is a cost to the parties when disputes continue.

In some cases the family members in dispute say they are not bothered but other family members find the conflict hard to deal with.

A quick internet search lists many famous people who are in conflict with their father or brothers, etc.

In my experience as a mediator of family disputes, the people in dispute do not contact me. It is always other family members or health professionals who contact me about family dispute mediation.

The great news is when the parties involved agree to come voluntarily to mediation with me as the mediator – they always reach agreement. The aim is that it is a win\win situation for all concerned. Surprisingly, it only takes one session to resolve the issues.

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Low Cost Counselling for Trainee Counsellors and Psychotherapists

Starting on the journey to become a Counsellor and Psychotherapist is very expensive. In addition to the tuition fees and books, as a trainee counsellor and psychotherapist you must undertake 50 hours mandatory personal counselling.

I am delighted to offer low cost counselling for trainee counsellors and psychotherapists in Dublin. I use a wide range of theoretical approaches – including Person-Centred therapy, Integrative approach – Humanistic, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Mindfulness and Compassion, Inner Child healing and Psychodynamic Psychotherapy\Counselling. Art Therapy and Sand Tray therapy are also incorporated into the sessions.

I am also very aware of the research carried out which shows the importance of the counsellor being the right fit for the client and the most important thing is the relationship between the client and the counsellor. I am therefore happy to offer a free meet and greet session to you as a trainee counsellor to see if I am the right fit for you.

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Family Therapy and Mediation for Family Estrangement

Family breakups are hard. Young teens may decide they do not want to meet one of their parents, perhaps through loyalty to the other parent. After many years of being estranged it can be extremely difficult to meet up. That is where Mediation and Family Therapy can help. With an impartial and neutral mediator the family members are able to focus on the future they would like to create. I am working in this area for a long time and from my experience, families need only one or two sessions to resolve the issues.

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One of the requirements of a counselling training course is that trainees must attend mandatory personal counselling. This can be expensive and time consuming. It can also be emotionally demanding. I am pleased to offer a reduced rate to trainees. Included in the counselling is art therapy, sand tray therapy, person centered counselling, solution focused therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Choice theory and mindfulness. Trainees are able to see what works well for them and are able to bring this into their own client work.

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I have many years experience mediating disputes in the community. Mediation is an ideal forum for community disputes as it means that the focus is on the search for satisfactory solutions to conflicts.
Through the use of community mediation each people is heard. As a result there is the opportunity to transform the relationship between the parties.

What I also find is that those who take part learn the skills of mediation. As a result they are regularly able to mediate when conflict arises. They have the ability and the motivation to find long-lasting solutions to their conflicts.

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If you have been impacted by the arrival of your adult “boomerang” child or children you might like to consider mediation. You may be an adult child(ren) and are encountering issues since returning to the family home.

Mediation is a non-judgement, impartial service. In my experience the issues which are causing such an impact on the lives of the parents and the adult children, can be easily resolved through mediation. I find that when the family members agree to sit down together in the safe environment of a mediation session the issues can be dealt with in one session, or at the most in two sessions.

I have a lot of experience in this area and I would be glad to send you details. It is an inexpensive service and the families I have worked with all agree that they got a win-win result.

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It is good that so many siblings and families are attending mediation to resolve conflicts. When the parties agree to attend and agree to the ground rules it is almost guaranteed that they will reach a resolution.

There is a cost for the parties and their extended families when conflict is on-going. All of the siblings\families who successfully completed mediation with me agreed that there was a weight lifted off their shoulders when they reached agreement.

As a mediator the surprising thing is that in the vast majority of cases, only one session is required – in siblings\family conflict cases.

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If you are having a lot of personal distress due to anxiety maybe you would like to attend for counselling. Your anxiety may be associated with nausea, headaches or anger. You may also find you are drinking a lot of alcohol or smoking weed to help you with anxiety. You may have been prescribed drugs to relieve your anxiety but do not want to stay on them forever. The good news is that with a few sessions you can learn techniques that will help you obtain relief from anxiety without the need for drugs. You just need to make the choice to retrain your brain and the results are so worth it.

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If you are in a same-sex relation and you know that your relationship is over and you would like things to be amicably in relation to children, property, finances, pets and personal belongings you might like to consider mediation.

During mediation, parties are encouraged to discuss all of the issues and explore the various options which they have to resolve their differences.

Same sex couples who take part in Mediation are choosing to take charge of their lives. Using mediation reduces the anger associated with the break up. With mediation, the couple are able to discuss what they think is fair, and what solutions could allow them to part ways with respect and emotional closure. Mediation helps couples to keep talking until they find solutions that work for both of them. The aim of mediation is for both parties to feel they have arrived at a win-win situation.

My role as a mediator is not to take sides, not to sit in judgement, not to make decisions. The Mediation Process is based on the idea that the parties themselves are capable of arriving at a mutually acceptable resolution with the help of a Mediator.

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If you would like to attend counselling and want to learn techniques to help you but are unable to leave your home to attend therapy due to:
• Agoraphobia – fear of leaving your home
• Ill-health or disability
• You are a new mum – and have problems getting a babysitter
• Or any other reason
Home Visit Counselling is available in Dublin
I use evidence-based approaches including:
• CBT – Cognitive-behaviour Therapy
• Solution-Focused Therapy
• Person-Centered Therapy
• Mindfulness – for Stress Reduction

Alternatively, you might like to avail of the SKYPE counselling sessions

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